I wouldn't do any R talk btw. Give it some time, don't rush things now. If he really wants you btw he might as well just 'rape' you..not violently of course. That'd be a tough one, you'll most likely like it that he takes control but if you turn it down it might end in a frustration conflict and at talk. Just be careful. I don't think you actually need to continue teasing him much. Sounds like he's super horny already. Maybe switch gears and just take care of yourself for a few days again. It's a tough situation but you need him to start any at talks. Like I said, give it more time.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15