Easy answer: sex does not always equal love. Make love to him when you feel truly loved, don't do it just for the sex. Passion is great, but make sure you are being loved first. Listen to your gut feeling if he seems to be open to work on the M. You don't want breakup sex, you want makeup sex!
Don't overdo the teasing either. You don't want this to become a sexual game. You want to save your M, right?


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15