Hello everyone, Just checking in to let you all know i am still kicking. I have been trying my best to GAL. Kinda had a weird situation occure this past friday, not necesarily to me but to W. I went out with a friend for a festival here in honolulu, it is called first friday. bars and shops are open really late to show art and just have a good time. I went to a Bar/art studio where they had live musice and live paintings. i ended up dancing with a big group of ladies, just having a good time. Well i get at text at like 230AM from friend. he was out with W that night. he said dude i saw you dancing and you looked like you were having a blast, and then he stated that they were headed to the house. i sent him a message saying i would be home really late/early like 5AM since i was just doing me and not to wait up. when i got back both were still sitting there on the couch. i went to bed! The next day he said that they had ended up at the same place as me just upstairs. He said W walked up to him and was like (hubby) is out there dancing with all kinds of girls. and he walked to window and was like. oh snap he sure is! To me i could care less i am no longer hers to care either way. But he said she acted really annoyed or upset. My question is am i doing the wrong thing going out and enjoying myself? i have done nothing to break the vows i have made, but i know looks and perception can be just as bad. But then at the same time i can't help but laugh that it happened.
This past monday she came to the house and myself, friend and W were talking about the past friday, she brought it up....! She was like man i was so drunk i dont even remember where we ended up. I just kinda chuckled and stated that i ended the night with a chicken pesto sandwich, and that i had a great time. Inside i knew where she was going with that statement but i refused to give it anymore thought. Gave me a little pleasure to hear the comment, i don't really know why but it did!
Other than that finished both finals this weekend as well.