Interesting phone call last night. She called to let me know what day she had given the realtor for a closing date. Monday after Easter. She mentioned her plan to keep looking for a place during that time. If she fond nothing she was going to move into her moms. Until school was out for the summer. Some how and I have no clue how but the convo got turned to OM. And I simply asked I thought you where done with him. She stated she absolutely was and her family and friends would kill her if she went back to him. And asked me not to tell the kids because she wanted to and she has a plan for everything with OM and them. And it won't work if I tell them. "Ok none of my business"
Then a phone call today. Just weird. She calls and says the kids tell me your coming out today to pack some more stuff up. I said no they misunderstood that's tomorrow. I need to grab some stuff for the party I'm having for the St. Pats day parade. She said oh that's to bad. I said I was going to ask tonight if that was ok since it's your place right now. She didn't answer and said goodbye.
Now I'm not going to change my plans at all for her or I don't think I should. I guess how available do I be in the future? I'm not putting to much on today. There is probably way to many emotions going on in her. Just confused!
Thanks 3kids
M36/W30 S13,D10,S6 Married 4.5 together 12 Bomb 1/14 EA/PA OM 1/14 still going Served 2/14/14 Separated 3/14 D paused 6/14 6/15 divorced