Sandi2 If the H would understand how important it is not peruse, cushion, and cater to the WW, and in fact, should act as if he is a WAS and is dumping her........it would reverse things real fast.
Going back and re-reading my thread...
This stuck out at me as there was one thing I seem to have neglected to relay about Saturday prior to ML. She was on the patio and when I was telling her about how disappointed I was, I did lose it a bit and raised my voice and told her "I HATE YOU! How can you do this to your daughter???" because she was going out and not to the party at the ChuckEcheese.
Was it then that something switched in her possibly? That she saw she was losing me to some degree and she may have panicked thus, giving in to her urges and trying to reel me back in? It certainly would make some sense. But I'm sure I'm reading way too much into all of this. I have not brought it up to her nor will I. But I am trying to understand what have transpired. And am trying to figure out the next phase of my plan to get her back.
Another thing. No discussion last night when I got home she was asleep or in her room pretending to be, said nothing to her this AM, waved good bye. No contact at all today during work hours and none planned. This evening I will continue to detach and speak to her only if she wants to. Working the 37 best i can everyday!
Last edited by phunguy; 03/11/1510:35 PM.
Me 41 Wife 38 T20 M13 S8 D3 Bomb 1/26/15 A confirmed 2/19/15
