Originally Posted By: CaliGuy
*giggles ... you said you have an "attractive package"


I did! And -- I meant it... in more ways than one ;-)

(Hey -- W's MLC caused me to lose nearly 30 lbs. and I do work out -- My "package" ain't too bad for a 44 year old... One day W might wake up and realize that!)

Originally Posted By: CaliGuy
Ok congrats on the first step to the new you!!

I read here today about the outlook our spouses have on us in regards to working ... I think this will be nothing more than another reason for her to take another look at Jer 2.0 ... I had a similar thing, basically under employed, my reasons were logical... I had to remain in my job as she bounced around and tried her hand in many areas, once she landed a great job, all the sudden all eyes were on me as if I was just sleeping on the couch for 10 years, she forgot when the market crashed it was me supporting the family, working 2 jobs as she was out for over a year. MLC Monster let me know how badly she wanted vacations during this time.

Anyways ... I think this is nothing short of great for you, will bring and build confidence ... you go gurl!


Thank you so much. Yes -- while there is no job offer in hand (YET), just the interview today has been a huge boost to my confidence... Good things are on the horizon for me :-)

And hey -- if this does cause W to take a second look at Jer 2.0 then yay! Super bonus points for Jer! :-)


Me 48, Her 50
(Same-Sex Couple)
3 Children
Together: 9.5 years before BD
BD: Week of 10/27/14
ExW started EA w OW 9/2014
ExW married OW 12/2015