Cali if the affair, (her hooking up with a bottom feeding, mouth-breather) was your choice you're sort of an idiot.
Not to put too sharp a point on it: fact is we all had a part in the downfall of our marriage.
An affair, is a symptom, its a crappy one, its a horrible one, but its also just another step in a pattern of things that usually happen in a an unhappy or unfulfilling marriage.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
