PS I would like to say to all going through this: Nothing you did CAUSED your spouse to cheat. That decision was all theirs. If they were unhappy with you, they had a responsibility to speak up and not blindside you. So no, I won't be taking the blame for destroying my family. Was I a perfect wife? No -- but I was pretty darn good! No one is a perfect partner, but that does not give the other person a valid reason to cheat in my book. I supported my H through 15 years of grad school and job opportunities (sacrificing my own), just to be dumped after a diagnosis of brain tumors. So yeah, not taking the blame for this one. I always tried to do the right thing in my marriage -- even now. He wants an amicable divorce and to move on with his younger girlfriend, and I am accepting that and helping to make that happen. So be it.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!
