still moving on

[Ahoy]

Hi Vanilla -- Yes, she is feeling better. Part of the issue was that she was staying up late watching YouTube (unbeknownst to me). I figured it out, and now she is getting more sleep.

Thank you, rd! This week we are signing over the car titles and hiring a realtor to sell the house. I'm selling a bunch of my stuff on Craigslist in advance of the move. Feeling good!

Thanks for chiming in, Heart. Yes, I'm angry that he has done this to our family and that my daughter is suffering. I don't think I would be human if I didn't feel that. But I don't share that with him! I keep it positive and businesslike and professional with him. If I were trying to reconcile with him, then I would probably try to bury my anger, but we are pursuing dissolution, and I am happy to be making a new life for myself without him. I don't think -- for me -- that a marriage can survive without trust, and that trust has been destroyed. I'm sad for my daughter, but I myself and quite happy to be moving on!