And one more thing I have noticed....my WAW throws herself, really throws herself after this AP. She spends gobs of money on her, and even begs her to be her "only" even though her AP believes in open marriages.
Wow. Just Wow.
Pursuit and distance, two major topics of divorcebusting. For a long time, I pursued. I no longer do that, detaching slowly is something I am practicing and getting better at. I have noticed however, that even when I don't pursue, it makes no difference to my WAW. It really doesn't matter, I am doing it for me not for her. It is for my emotional well being not hers.
