I am no longer willing to be his emotional porter sorting out his relationship with his children and I am no longer willing to be his life secretary ensuring his life paperwork (e.g. taxes, immigration, drivers license, insurance paperwork) gets done. So yes, I have expectations of him that these are HIS life responsibilities and I am no longer going to cover for him and do them for him. He has chosen to "fire me", but then expects me to show up to "work" daily.
e.g. Today son has a match (which he has every Wed afternoon) and it is in the family calendar which is on every mobile device. I refuse to remind H of the match. It is his choice to attend or not. I am going to attend.
Maybe I have it wrong, but I'm not sure I am strong enough to do it all for him with a smile on my face and no conflict (which it seems like what he wants)...
H: 48 Me: 47 Married: 19 yrs T: 20 yrs 2 teen-Ds and S H-MLC (started 2012) and H-Unemployed (11/2014) D-Bomb: 2/2015 H left country but hasn't moved out: 7/2015 I filed: 7/2015
