[susana4]

Thanks Complex, Starsky and Cadet for your advice. Ok, so wait and see and watch his actions. I agree I'm worth it!

Question time though (again, I'm really sorry if I'm asking dumb questions):
-What actions am I looking for? I am really more of a words person so it's hard for me to look for and note actions.
In my last DB coaching session a few weeks ago, I made two goals - that he would invite me to do something together, and he would kiss me. Both happened. In my call yesterday we set the following goal - for H to identify and share one emotion with me. Are there other consistent actions I should be looking for? Even though I have these goals I kind of still feel lost in not knowing what actions I should be looking for.

-How do I send the right signal? Maybe it's just me, but I would think if he keeps trying to ML and I keep saying no, that will feel like rejection. Maybe I'm over sensitive but I get very rejected and hurt if I keep trying to ML to someone and they say no. Now, I kind of don't care because he has already rejected ME by firing me as his W! But I also suspect that maybe I need to reject him in the right way, and make sure I send a signal of - 'I'm not saying I'm not attracted to you, I'm saying I want to ML in a sober, loving way'. How do I get that message across to H?