Moved too fast? Now what?

[Bing]

Big day tomorrow meeting with a divorce mediator for a free consultation. I initiated this in a misguided attempt at boundary setting - WW continues affair and I will not be in an open marriage.

I'm not sure how to conduct myself at this meeting. I think from the advice I've gathered it's best I be authentic and genuine, but not controlling or mean. I also must be ready to lose my WW as I have no control over HER and can only worry about myself.

Hopefully I didn't set a trap for myself when I acted on emotion and set up the meeting.

Sound right to you guys?