I doubt she will either! I don't know. I can't force her to leave. For the past week, since I have completely detached from her and only discussed the kids, I have noticed a few changes. She did start selling things online again like she used to. She has not been on FB for a long time. She got back on there and started selling. Should I take this as a positive things and keep doing what I am doing? I sometimes thing that if I press the issue more, it is me trying to force the issue and trying to control it. I just have a hard time dealing with being lied to by someone you are suppose to trust. I have a really hard time being betrayed. I have a really hard time thinking about her talking to these men and also her having an EA. I am just tired of waking up everyday stressing over this stuff!!

I keep hearing Sandi talk about the WW coming out of their fog when something snaps them out of it. Lately I have been looking at divorce lawyers and contemplating that, because I don't know how much longer I can take this going on. But I hurt for my kids. I hurt for my step kids that would have to go through another divorce.


Me:44
EXW 44
Wonderful Children
M11, T14
BD 6/14
OM Confirmed
Divorce Final 2/25/16
"It works if you work it!"