Need Help!!!

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Well W just called. D attorney dropped off the proposal for a divorce settlement to the office. W wanted to know when I would be in to review it, I said I will go in after lunch. We talked for a few minutes about things. She said the D attorney asked her again today if she is sure she wants to continue the process or if she wants to try and reconcile. W told her she wouldn't have called her in the first place if she wasn't sure. All of the above was told to me by W on the phone.

I said to her even though all of this is costing money, don't put a price on saving our marriage. She said she knows that it would cost much less to stop the D at any point then it would to go through with it.

We had a little small talk. At the end she said this is the best conversation we had since before things got bad between us.

The one thing she brought up the D attorney on why she has to keep things moving is the fighting in front of D14. I try so hard to have a good attitude when I see W but she seems to bait me every time. I try to detach and then she goes further out of bounds. I just feel if I ignore it and don't call her out on it I am being a doormat. But I also have to realize I am pushing her further away instead. I need to find balance and just ignore certain things for now.