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[Closer2]

Tenbook, I have not read Five Languages of Love. I have seen the author's website and I will pick up the book.

I discussed the boundaries with my coach on our first call. However, she crossed one boundary last night and this morning. I asked her to leave the house after breaking the second boundary.

I really do want to make this marriage work. I feel guilty for the mistakes I have made, but I wasn't the only one to make mistakes. However I feel like she has constantly lied to my face time and time again.

This morning I found a letter from her OM. It was out in the open in our walk-in closet. I didn't snooping, it was just out in the open on a self. Her OM talked about marriage and how he would be the best step-dad he can be to her children (my children). More I love yous, can't wait to get married, etc.

She and I have been having regular sex with me since she filed and hasn't seen him since New Years Eve. I'll admit it, I know it was bad for me. It felt impossible to DB and still have sex with her. It has always been like a drug for me, I couldn't turn it down. After years of very little, I was pretty happy.

Now that she will be living with her mother, detaching, no sex, and minimal conversation will be easier for me. She will come home in the morning to take care of our daughter and pick our son from school. When I get home from work she can leave or she can leave after the kiddos go to sleep. I am also looking forward to spending more time with my kids without her around. I think this will be acceptable solution until the house is sold and I can move into a new place.