This is a good point ^

He is seeing an IC and I meet with our MC independently sometimes myself. I like having these professionals in our life bc they keep us accountable and have been the voice of reason saying to each of us, you can't have all your changes right now - be patient and keep the focus on yourselves.

Things have been steady and improving. Not much to post about at the moment, so that is good.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.