still moving on

[Heart14]

Hi Ahoy, that's great news about your test results.

I'm not overly familiar with your sitch. I wanted to comment on this part of your post though.

My daughter struggles, and that makes it hard, but I was not the one to blow up the family.

Seems like a lot of anger in this statement ^^^. I understand why you are angry. Affairs are hard and they hurt. That's a horrible choice for someone to make, but it still takes two for a marriage to breakdown. It seems like you are assigning all blame to him with this statement. I may be misinterpreting your intent. Or you may just be venting which is fine. Do you think your daughter picks up on the fact that you feel this way though?

Anger is a normal part of the process. Try not to hang on to it for so long that it makes you miserable though. You will be happy again someday.