Part 16 - edz, just edz

[edz]

Well w texted me to say she was in the park (with s) up from where I work today but didnt know how long she'd be there (I'd previously said that if she's about give me a shout if she'd like coffee etc) texted back no worries off to lunch in a bit let me know if you'd like coffee.

Didnt hear so went to pick up some more day to day clothes in a less baggy size, phone went and it was w. Told me she wasnt sure how long they'd be there and wasnt feeling too well and she's off to (her friend) tonight with s as she'd turned her down on friday. Said no worries if she's not well she should head home and if she's not well tonight maybe dont go.

W started telling me the (her now) car doesnt sound too well and seems lumpy, she's recently had it serviced so I suggested she took it back and had them take a look, I also asked did she get it covered under breakdown, she said no she hadnt.

I'm afraid I didnt bite and left it with her to progress. I know it was her asking by "hint" but Mr Fixit is chained, duck taped and roped to a pole right now. If w asks me to assist her with talking to the garage I will but this feels like a line not to cross unless invited.

Anyway signed off the call with a positive cheery tone and said hope she feels better and I'll catch up with her later. Then went back to shopping...more pants ....two sizes smaller.

Feels a little mean I didnt offer more help but really this has to be a consequence of her decisions surely, w does seem to be saying I want space and time alone, oh, unless I need you to do something. That doesnt sound healthy for me, she knows where I am if she wants to ask for help or she wants to work with me together.

Thoughts? (Yes, GAL, I know, I Know )