IMO you are still too focused on her, having the need to 'tell' her about all the developments. I Think it would be beneficisl if you cut as much contact to her as possible for a while and try to truly detach. Only kid related.
Anyone else an opinion on this?


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15