IMO you are still too focused on her, having the need to 'tell' her about all the developments. I Think it would be beneficisl if you cut as much contact to her as possible for a while and try to truly detach. Only kid related. Anyone else an opinion on this?
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15