Sorry. I almost feel bad I triggered this thought process about H in you^^
Of course you gotta get this through and then out of your head.
I don't think either that it's wrong to see yourself with someone else.
It's part of valuing yourself for who you are and realizing that there is someone ekse out there who would do the same.
It helps greatly in detaching and morally it's not wrong I think, because it's not specfic and God wants us to love ourselves too, because if we don't we can't truly love others either!

Last edited by Complex; 03/11/15 01:01 PM.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15