hi Toots, I know how hard it is but as the others have said before me, all Toots can control is Toots. Your H does sound like a MLC, Wayward Spouce, etc but what differance does it make ? He may come out of it he may not. Toots controls what she does. Life without your H by your side is really hard and you want him back but Toots has so much love to give and life to enjoy that perhaps Toots should try to Live her life as it is now. Very , very easy for me to say, I know but Toots needs to keep very busy and maybe bring some sunshine into some other peoples life that will in turn bring sunshine into hers.
You are a wonderful person and trust me, people are waiting to meet someone like you. Take care, Rd
