I think a key thing for me is employment. I am self employed. Previously working around kids at school, being home etc appeared great. Pay wasn't to hot cos it is basically part time work. W resented this because she worked FT and had to leave early and/or get home late. I think the biggest 180 I could do is get a regular job with a steadier wage. That would be better for myself right now but also leave me less time to ponder things, show I'm moving on/making changes...and it is something she mentioned just a week or two ago when I'd said I had applied for a job.
BD - 30TH JAN 2015 S - 30TH JAN 2015 PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014) CONTINUAL TALK OF D ME: 31 W: 28 T: 10yrs M: 4.5yrs D:5, S:6