Toots,

I don't see anything wrong with you not imagining yourself with another person. Surely the reason we're all here is to win our spouses back. The advice others have given me seems to apply to you to, as hard as it is you must detach from your husband. Like Vanilla said, if H wants back in he knows where you are. In the meantime snooping through emails for updates (I know, I've done it) is only going to slow you down in gaining control of YOUR life.

Last edited by alpha99; 03/11/15 09:58 AM.
BD - 30TH JAN 2015
S - 30TH JAN 2015
PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014)
CONTINUAL TALK OF D
ME: 31
W: 28
T: 10yrs
M: 4.5yrs
D:5, S:6