This does take courage V. I always go back to the serenity prayer....God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.
My Mum belonged to AA for many years and would often go and 12 Step newbies. I think the 12 steps are great for everyone.
Stay strong V....hugs K
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.