I'm strongly leaning towards filing. The wife is so unhappy and she doesn't really care for the kids. She has zero patience and if they make a mistake she'll make them pay. Especially if I'm not around. It wasn't like this in the beginning but has gotten a lot worse over the last few years. Her 24 yr old son wants nothing to do with her either; this has been this way for years.
I want my son to grow up with a more loving person.
Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.