When preparing for a confrontation about the OM and laying out the "no-OM boundary", it will need to come from a place of calmness coupled with strength. Actually, it takes balls of steel to do this. At this juncture, I am not too sure if you are in the right frame of mind to do so with S15's upcoming surgery occupying your mind and attention.
This can wait until after the surgery.
However, I would make note of the card and other A-related details to gather up some facts when preparing for the confrontation. 25yearsmlc said one piece of excellent advice to a poster not too long ago (paraphrasing here):
When one makes a point/argument from the center of calmness, he is at an advantage.
Genius, right? FYI...25 is a practicing attorney so she knows what she's talking about.
