Cali!!!!! Thanks for stopping by- I think about you often and just caught up on your thread too.

It's crazy how insidious those changes in is are as we try desperately to fix our relationship. I was also going through a rough time at work when ex was starting I to MLC ( though I didn't know he was in it at time) and I was so devastated that he wasn't supporting me more. I know I went through a depression during that time and really lost myself.

I know my step is lighter these days as the boulders of baggage have been tossed aside!

Me 41 H 40
M 20 T 23
S 19,16, 8 D 13
BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work
BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D
Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015
Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown