Cali- you sound great my friend. And as others have said you handled the date and follow-up with honesty. I think there's nothing wrong with that. I really believe that one of the big turning points is when you realize I your heart and soul that the marriage is over. That sounds terrible but those of us who are fixers AND are used to being successful in anything we set our minds to always have in the back of our mind that it's all going to work out in the end. We are convinced of that fact and it holds us back from completing our portion of the journey. That said, we can't get there until we get there. The acceptance of the finality and looking at the future through different lenses is very freeing. You are almost there, I can see it. And as Shining said- you're a serious catch! When the time is right- you will know. Rooting you on!!
Me 41 H 40 M 20 T 23 S 19,16, 8 D 13 BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015 Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown
