Guess I'm in this section now...

[VFL]

Just needing some advice. Do I stay dark other than convos about our daughter? She most recently talked to me about the family Disney vacation in October (the only thing our daughter asked for was to still take family vacations together (we've either gone to Disney or the beach every year). She just told me how much it was doing to be and how much the payments would be. She's making the payments so I'm just paying her. She also had the carpets cleaned today (I moved out Sunday) she said some red stains wouldn't come out. Getting new carpet is too expensive so she asked what I thought about dying it. She said we'd talk about it more when I brought our daughter to her house. I still have access to the house for when she isn't home yet and for days our daughter wants to go there instead also I have to take her there to get ready for ballet practice on Mondays.

So just wondering do I stay dark? I know it's a no no to bring up any relationship talk but just wondering if I call to see how she's doing is a no no at this point