Keep the positive thoughts and prayers coming... Interview for a job tomorrow!

In other news from the wacky world of this MLC... The OW and I have exchanged some friendly emails... I still don't condone what is going on and have made it clear that the situation is not what I want, but I know this has to just play itself out (and will in time) so I am being somewhat "friendly"... And OW is coming to visit in June... The logistics of that are still uncertain, but the trip has been booked.

I can't even begin to go into all of the details of the recent conversations or the emails between OW and myself... I wouldn't believe any of it if this weren't my life. I will say that the email exchange was initiated by me with the intent of getting to know OW before she meets or begins to interact with my kids.

For now I'm playing nice, but praying very hard for more obstacles and a huge miracle. I do feel like I am becoming more detached... which is good because it is very clear to me now that this really is going to be a long marathon.

Back to me -- REALLY looking forward to the job interview tomorrow. A tiny bit nervous because it's been years since I went on a real interview... for many years my job moves didn't really involve formal interviews because nearly all of them occurred through networking or open transfer periods within the school district. What I'm not nervous about is my knowledge, skills, and abilities -- I'm actually somewhat over-qualified for the position I'm interviewing for tomorrow but the person interviewing me will really be looking at where she can put me rather than focusing on this specific job. Just need to get back into the district soon...


Me 48, Her 50
(Same-Sex Couple)
3 Children
Together: 9.5 years before BD
BD: Week of 10/27/14
ExW started EA w OW 9/2014
ExW married OW 12/2015