Not usually, but it's not rare, either. Maybe 10% of the time?
The "good side" to that coin, if there is one, is -- to me, anyway -- it would show that she's still highly conflicted about the choice she is making. Otherwise, she wouldn't try to "wall off" so many people she formerly cared about.
Starsky
Just curiously, how do you read that she is conflicted? To me, it seems that she is just hateful and wants no reminders of our 17 years together. I honestly wonder if she will ever speak with me or my family ever again once divorce is final. Just 6 months ago we were all together as a family, laughing and playing games together. Sigh.
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15
