BA, you asked about her story. What I know so far is that she is a caregiver living with her employer. She's been in Canada three months now. She worked in Hong Kong for a few years previous to this. Her family is in the Philippines (6 hours outside of Manila)...she has two sisters. She was a teacher in the Philippines. She's also been a life long Adventist and loves the Lord and her faith. Initially when I met her it was through Church Lady who brought her to me and said to her "talk to him in Cantonese, he'll talk to you" (It was like I was a zoo animal lol) and we began to talk about HK. At the Valentine's lunch AM sat beside me and we chatted a bit (that's where she told me it's best to stay within the faith relationship wise). I asked her about her situation and she said softly and teasingly "for now, that's my secret OK" I wasn't looking at her as a prospective partner and said "sure, no problem". She's also at least 20 years younger than me...which was another reason I really didn't see her as a possible. We've been socializing in the same group and just started FBing and texting in the last nine days or so. Saturday she had that crisis at work and turned to me. That's what I know so far. We seem to enjoy our interactions and talking about the present. She knows a bit about my past. She's asked me whether my wife and I could reconcile and I said "no chance" she also teased me about maybe I'd like to see my Filipino gf again and once more I said "no thanks". So that's it. Again, embers may glow or die out...who knows.
