My first husband was abusive. He had an immature response and would lash out verbally, swearing and yelling. He punched and broke the car windshield because another driver peeved him off, he'd throw the remote across the room. The final straw was he throw the kitchen table because he couldn't find his wallet. I worried about my kids getting injured ( even though he would not have intended to) plus I didn't want the pattern of this to be carried on into the next generation.
It takes hitting bottom for someone to be motivated to change. It too my ex lossing me to eventually get therapy for his anger issues. It didn't happen right away. He lost another girlfriend after me when he started showing his immature angry behaviours
. Some never change. All I knew was I didn't want to live my life walking on egg shells. My kids are better off now and they have agood relationship with their Dad
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.
