It's amazing how they punish the ones who cared for them. I think we men give up to much to them and then this is our punishment.
Do you have a link to your original thread? Any advice you could give me would be appreciated as well. We might have similiar situations.
This is my original thread....this all started about 2 months ago. You can see from that first thread I was absolutely devastated and 8 weeks later i've accepted it.
I know how you feel though, I wasn't the perfect husband but I didn't deserve to be treated like I was. I still don't understand her feelings and probably never will but she did this to me, so I can't feel guilty or anything anymore about moving on with my life. I'll always love her but I really don't think I can be IN love with her ever again after thinking about how much she's hurt me.
My advice to you would be to go to a doctor if you're depressed and get some pills, they helped me so much I can't even put it into words...and I was always pretty anti-pharmaceutical. Also, have the dr refer you to a counselor...that also helped me a tremendous amount. Having another person ask you the tough questions and get your feelings out there is a great start to moving forward.
M:39 W:35 Married: 12 years Together: 16 years No kids D bomb: 1/17/15 Filed 1/29/15 Moving out 2/2015
