my point was just that Asians tend to be much more ok with going slow than in my culture. Of course, they are different people. Btw, the last woman I was messaging with was black...and I didn't approach AM she approached me. She suggested we become FB friends and she gave me her phone number "in case of emergencies ha ha ha"...I didn't ask. I also don't want to crap where I live...it's a small church and I sure don't want to create any situations...so slow is good. She may just want to be my friend...we'll see
