Anxiously waiting for it to fall apart

[dejavu2]

I am trying to show my kids that money can't buy you happiness. True happiness comes from within.

Thankfully being the "project manager", I have maintained control of all finances. We are waiting for 2 big payments then I am going to change our bank accounts to joint signature required for items greater than x. However, he will have to sign paperwork and I don't want to spook him and have those payments not arrive. Also, thankfully all our money is from traceable sources, so it would be harder for it to disappear - as lawyer said that his a major fraud offense.

A close friend of mine is a divorce attorney who gave the opinion that if a man has another bed waiting that he doesn't stick around. I don't think this is being driven by OW; however wouldn't be surprised if he doesn't get OW before it is over.

JOB - your post on detaching is great! I think I need to read it every day.