Wii: Just remember that she is NOT SDA lady. A totally different person.
I agree with Barb on this. The culture may be the same but each person is different so treat her and your interactions with her that way.
I don't think you've mentioned her "story" yet, i.e. is she recently divorced, never married, etc. Does she have children; are you guys about the same age and at the same place in life? How long has she lived in Canada and does she have other family members living near her? If I remember correctly SDA was living here by herself and all of her family were still in the Philippines which perhaps made her be too dependent on you.
You're a nice and compassionate guy Wii and deserve a genuinely nice woman in your life - I'm pulling for you! Keep us posted!