There will be plenty of opportunities to show your W that you are moving forwards with your own life...and she may become interested enough to turn back towards it. You know how these sitches go, and there is usually a predictable trajectory for the A. It just takes time and patience...
Alpha, this ^^^.
Look, you can make mistakes DBing. You just can't keep making the same ones, over and over again. It's not complicated, but that doesn't mean it's EASY, either -- it takes a LOT of self-discipline.
