Thank you cadet for welcoming me. Yes, I have plenty of questions. The most nagging ones are:
*Should I continue to go to the separation conseling?
*Is it normal , that I am full of hope on one day and totally desparate on the next day? Sometimes it even changes in hours.
*Can a detachement backfire? Are there any dangers in it? Right now it feels strange to "not check her moods". She seems to be totaly relaxed with the situation. And that frightens me. How can she be so relaxed while our family breaks into pieces? Sorry for beeing such a whimp. But it is an emotional roller coaster.


Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out