Love is friendship caught on fire...I like that Kat I just hope I don't get burnt to a crisp lol. I'm ok with going slowly and seeing where it goes. Her culture around relationships is to go slow...and I mean slow lol! If you recall SDA Lady wouldn't let me kiss her for two months when we started dating. She finally relented when her bff told her "you're not dating in the Philippines so stop treating Whatis like you are! He doesn't understand!" So there's no rush here. It's not like online where there are a dozen other guys there for her to choose from. She likes me for whatever reason and I like her. We'll see. I've already suggested that we could have lunch on Sabbath where we could take our time and have some privacy but I'm not pushing it...it's her call. If we do that though she will be exposing our "friendship" or whatever it is to the other Filipina's and I know they don't like doing that early on. So who knows...all I know is that when a lady is out at spinning class and is thinking of me...that's a good thing