Definitely time to find a family counselor to help the kids, and me navigate through this. I realize how many mixed messages those poor kids are getting. Hearing us fight last night. H announcing he will be leaving. Then this morning--life goes on as usual as if last night never happened. Pleasant to each other and parenting well. I think it is a good thing that we can be this peaceful for their sake, but I can also see how confusing this might be for them. I downloaded a book about parenting through divorce a few weeks ago but I haven't had the chance to read it. I have so much going on at work that has me overwhelmed but I need to make sure I do this parenting piece as well as I can. That has to be my top priority.
40s 2teens M14Y BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14 BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14 EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15 D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17
