Well I've been sort of stuck in a position where I need to talk to w about sunday. Mothers day here in the uk on sunday and s would like to organise something nice (afternoon tea or similar) at a hotel (I note he's not paying ) Its a lovely idea and a tradition I started when he was a bump BUT things are different this year
So I've emailed w to ask does she have something already organised (such as seeing her m) or did she have an idea on swapping around days (otherwise she wont see him on md till late in the evening). I'm happy to work with s to set something up but I dont want to tread on her plans.
Typical, first year s proactively wants to organise something (think he had a taste of it here with his room then similar at the flat and now he's getting into the swing of bossing people, errr I mean, project organisation)
Its tricky though fine line between trying to be thoughtful on w and s for mothers day and subconciously slipping into an excuse to pursue, I'm watching myself closely.
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015