Your IC is wise, there is also a danger for MCS in helping as it flips his 'control' switch to on position. For a long time that switch was stuck in the on position MCS and now it flips. MCS this needs to be exchanged for a dimmer switch (analogue) rather than an on/off (switch). In this way 'help' need have different meanings in different situations rather than full on (bright light-full on empathy) or off (complete dark-defensive).
It also looks like W is rejecting friends to maintain her internal state. True friends will stay with it and know W is in there somewhere.
The secret to detachment is GAL so the focus is not on R and W. MCS, you have wonderful ready made GAL with your precious children.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
