Zues, thank you for that great post - very insightful and resonated with me in terms of H and OW. He is on a destructive path and is desperately chasing to regain the 'high' they had in the first couple of months of the A. He's in a cheeseless tunnel, but has yet to realise this - although consequences are really stacking up for him right now. I feel it can only be a matter of time....
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus