It's amazing how they punish the ones who cared for them. I think we men give up to much to them and then this is our punishment.

Do you have a link to your original thread? Any advice you could give me would be appreciated as well. We might have similiar situations.

Me: 45 W43
S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce)
D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.