Thanks guys! I have always been independent, watched my mom do it all on her own growing up. But, it feels especially empowering right now.
Gwen, we all move at our own pace. The only thing sad is the sitch. I think you are doing great!
So, when H picked up S yesterday, he came in his work minivan. I have no idea why he is driving his work van around on the weekend. There are no back seats, so S has to sit in the front seat. Not safe for a 43 pound 8 year old. I don't know why H was in that instead of his truck, but it irked me. He drove S around like that, shopping and stuff. He is normally so over protective about that kind of stuff! So at pick up, H asked if he could drop off S in the morning for me to take to school because he had to be in San Francisco early. I said yes of course. So this morning at drop off, I mentioned to H that it would be safest to limit S time in the minivan because of safety. He got a bit defensive, argued about air bags, then left with no bye. Oh, and before that, he mentioned that he forgot he had time cards to do this morning so he spent all morning on the phone rearranging his San Francisco meeting.
Their minds really are mud, huh?
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-