Originally Posted By: PatientMan
Originally Posted By: errod
I have not taken my ring off and I refuse to do until at least the divorce papers are signed and even then I still may not be ready.

There you go. That was something I had figured out about myself: that me wearing my ring - regardless of her wearing hers or how she treats our marriage - represented ME and what *I* stood for. And I was wearing my ring until the divorce was final because of what it said about me.

I am not advocating wearing a ring or not, only acting with convictions and authenticity.

-PM


That was my thought exactly


Me: 36
W: 36
D: 14
T: 18 (05/1997)
M: 16 (05/1999)
BD: 7/23/15
Separation 01/2015
D mentioned and started 02/2015
D filed 3/2015
OM confirmed 3/30/15