I have not taken my ring off and I refuse to do until at least the divorce papers are signed and even then I still may not be ready.
There you go. That was something I had figured out about myself: that me wearing my ring - regardless of her wearing hers or how she treats our marriage - represented ME and what *I* stood for. And I was wearing my ring until the divorce was final because of what it said about me.
I am not advocating wearing a ring or not, only acting with convictions and authenticity.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
