Foolish, that is the perfect mindset to be in. Focus on the kids, focus on the projects for work and focus on you.
I started doing yoga (I am a 35 year old guy) and have really started getting into it. PLUS there are some VERY good looking girls that go to the place I go to, which is nice being the only guy in said class and getting a little attention, even though it's about the last thing I am thinking of.
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016